Hi everyone! I thought I'd quit blogging but I want to mention about something. First of all, Merry Christmas :) Even though this is late >< Well , school is starting and my uniform is too long but too tight for me .__."
I would like to dedicate this post to : Charmaine Lim Si Yun
I know you may think, oh this is going to be long and really really insulting but actually i have something more like advice :/ As you know, Charmaine wants to fit in. She wants to have more friends. Sadly, Charmaine mistook the fact that if she liked what everyone else liked, she would be more "popular" , as in having more friends and being liked by everyone. However, everyone else found her to be copying them and was deeply upset with her. I too feel the same way. I used to "copy" people too, mostly like because I thought that the item was nice. I know how it feels like when people gossip about you secretly knowing that you did truly copy them and you don't have anything to say. Or people saying that you copied them when you really didn't. So, I solved it by asking and giving credit. If you sense that the person is feeling upset that you've copied them, why not admit that you did and give them credit.... like "You inspired me to like this!Thanks for sharing with me." The person will feel better and you won't lose a friend. :)
In the past, Charmaine used to flaunt her riches. I am unsure if she is extremely rich or she is just getting by. O.o So I am concerned when she usually wastes money... I felt that if she stayed true to herself everyone would like her more. Personally, I like Charmaine as my friend. I find it useless to talk to others when she has copied me. I admit I tell others if I sense that she is copying them. I feel that they should know because if they did maybe they wouldn't be so angry when they find out themselves. Er Charmaine if you aren't really that rich, you seriously don't have to buy me that burberry wallet or anything else which is super ex, we can work on something cheaper -shrug- I admit I do get angry sometimes when I find out that Charmaine copied me. And I do envy her when she keeps saying she's rich. I would also like to buy expensive stuff okay :PP But I have learned to accept that. I guess if I didn't have money now I could change it in the future. Students aren't supposed to be millionaires anyway.
There's one more thing about Charmaine I'm kinda worried about...well idk if she just doesn't know how to express herself or what but ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I hope she doesn't scream or act "childish" .... OKAY I KNOW I SOUND MEAN but for Charmaine I hope she can express herself more. If she is being taunted in real life I hope she can fight back besides screaming or something. Well, I did pester her before, and I know how to "stalk" people and everything ... But actually this has helped me understand more about Charmaine and I have stopped. :D
To everyone if you ever read this, if you can maybe you could be nicer to Charmaine... maybe .. if you can. and Charmaine when people are nice to you, don't do whatever you did during this year... Try to be more independent and share with others your feelings. Your classmates still care about you so care about their feelings too okay~ I hope your P6 Year will be happy.
Lastly, Charmaine, let's go to TWG Tea soon! ^^
i agree.
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